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WOMEN TEND TO BE NICE.  At least the majority of them try hard not to come off as a bitch. You can approach any woman you want, and as long as you don’t bore her to death, act impolitely or commit any other serious no nos, in most cases she will be nice to you (maybe except for places like clubs – read more about so called “bitch shields” in “BS Created So Far” section). It won’t change a bit her judgment about your sexual attractiveness – numerous studies confirm your genes decide. Only if you two “match” she will take other things about you into account, cause she will have to decide between you and other guys who also match her.

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The female tendency of trying to be polite, combined with the “don’t care about rejection” mindset most PUAs teach, explains why so many men believe seduction actually works. They ignore all other possible explanations of female behavior. Reality check – women decide whether someone is “boyfriend material” after like a few seconds:

„Speed dating: A man has just three minutes to impress a woman before she makes up her mind about him based on looks and manners. It also emerged most women believe 180 seconds is long enough to gauge whether or not he is Mr Right, or Mr Wrong. The study also found women rarely change their mind about a man after their initial reaction – and believe they are “always right” in their assumptions and judgments. The report which was commissioned among 3,000 adults to mark the release of Instinct, a new book by Ben Kay.

Kay said: “I think a lot of people believe in trusting their instincts when dating. It makes it seem more magical, like it’s coming from somewhere deeper”.

„But it’s surprising how quickly women make a decision. That’s barely enough time to finish a drink together”.

„It’s interesting that so many women trust their instincts and yet still give men the opportunity to change their minds. Some men might think this is leading them on but I would imagine most women just want to give every bloke a fair shot.”

“Basic instinct: Women take just three minutes to make up their mind about Mr Right” by Daily Mail Reporter.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1340868/Basic-instinct-Women-just-minutes-make-mind-Mr-Right.html?ito=feeds-newsxml#

Yep, I have noticed that the study found it is three minutes, I wrote seconds. But the study was not only about looks, it says: “based on looks and manners”. So if it was limited to looks the outcome would be probably seconds.

The ending of the article is so true. Men often think that the fact that a woman is still talking to them means there is still a chance with her. In reality she only wants to give every dude a fair shot. She is just being nice. There is nothing a man can do to change a woman’s mind on this subject.

The Only Strategy That Actually Works

I gotta agree with the alphalames on this one: approach as many women as you can. This little advice comes from many coaches not only PUAs: “Go and approach her… the worst she can say is no.” But instead she yells “get away from me you loser!” No seriously, in general women will act politely if you do.

The point is you don’t need no seminars, no books, no weird concepts, no new alpha male religion, to find a girl who really fancies you. I am not saying it will be easy, most of the time after her acting nice routine you will get rejected. The only strategies you need are those aimed to boost your self-confidence a little, cause let’s face it, no one likes to hear a “let’s just be friends” or simply “no” or even a “get lost asshole” answer, but it’s inevitable, and you need to learn to deal with it.

Keep It Simple: Confidence and Persistence

You probably won’t hear this last line, unless you approach women Borat style with a “very nice, how much?” (sexist character created by comedian Sacha Baron Cohen). Btw didn’t Borat show high alpha male status by being so direct and cocky?

You need only basic psychology. Call it “inner game” if it excites you. Just forget about all these techniques that are supposed to change the girl’s state of mind, cause this can be a huge turn off. Plus you need persistence and hard work. If there are some parts of your life you need to fix, you probably already know it. Remember that the hardest path in life is usually the right one.